As always, the insights and observations are appreciated. Being now an older male who would totally be part of a threesome mix, there is some truth and sadness that we are usually a barely tolerated part of the triad. I have only had MMF threesomes and my desires were twofold: having my female partner get fucked by someone different with me present—and also pleasing her in some way; and also as a way to scratch my own bi-itch. I thought another male would take the pressure off me to be an inexhaustible fuck-machine and also provide me a way to pleasure another man, which I found to be great fun as well. I am single now. I never had a FFM threesome, mostly because my female partners were mildly bi-curious at best and my enthusiasm and encouragement only created suspicion, not trust. Fair enough. Soooo...these things are complicated! At 62, my definition of sex is more broad than 30 years ago, but staying aware of one's motivations—threesome or not—is always good advice!
As always, the insights and observations are appreciated. Being now an older male who would totally be part of a threesome mix, there is some truth and sadness that we are usually a barely tolerated part of the triad. I have only had MMF threesomes and my desires were twofold: having my female partner get fucked by someone different with me present—and also pleasing her in some way; and also as a way to scratch my own bi-itch. I thought another male would take the pressure off me to be an inexhaustible fuck-machine and also provide me a way to pleasure another man, which I found to be great fun as well. I am single now. I never had a FFM threesome, mostly because my female partners were mildly bi-curious at best and my enthusiasm and encouragement only created suspicion, not trust. Fair enough. Soooo...these things are complicated! At 62, my definition of sex is more broad than 30 years ago, but staying aware of one's motivations—threesome or not—is always good advice!