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Robert Basil's avatar

I feel your sadness and your devotion to this person, and am grateful you have shared these feelings with people who read you. You are an amazing person and make all of us more alive to our world. Thank you. - Bob

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Ron Hogan's avatar

We don't know each other (yet), but I've been grateful on so many occasions that you're doing this newsletter, but also I'm glad that you're taking care of yourself and your grief on YOUR schedule.

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Clayre B's avatar

We don't know each other personally, but I'm a fellow Jewish bi / queer woman sending my support & following your newsletters. I'm so sorry, Lux.

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Karen Z's avatar

Please take the time you need do whatever gives you comfort and grace

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Em's avatar

So sorry to hear this and I hope you take as much time as you need❤️Sending love to you and your family

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Roger Knox's avatar

I don't know you personally, but I derive great education and insight—about others and myself—from your writings. I fervently hope you feel the support from people like me as well as those you know and those who love you. Grief is fucking hard. Sending you virtual hugs...Roger

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Eric L's avatar

Really sorry to hear this, Lux. :( Hoping for peace and support and recovery for you.

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Mark K.'s avatar

I am very very sorry 😞

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lu haze's avatar

sending you much love and as much peace as possible given the circumstances ❤️‍🩹

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Allan Lorde's avatar

I'm so sorry, Lux. Take care.

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Andy's avatar

Sorry to hear this, Lux. Hope everything is as ok as possible. Hugs

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Denis Pelli's avatar

Aw. I’m sorry. This must be tearing you up. I’ll miss your cheery smart voice. Hope you at least get closure. Rooting for you.

Denis

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Lux Alptraum's avatar

Thank you. When I’m ready to talk about it I’ll say more; but I will say now that I have no regrets about the relationship and I’m grateful I prioritized this person, I’m just sad they’re going so soon.

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Suzanne Morrison's avatar

So very sorry, Lux. You do so much for all of us who read you, and I'm glad you can take time for yourself and your people. <3

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Rachel Chalmers's avatar

I'm so grateful for what you have built here. Wishing you and your family peace.

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