Looking back on my dating life from my current celibate perch, I realize, to my chagrin, how much I fucked myself over by assuming that I had to have a “type” and that i should use that as some kind of guide to who I dated. Turns out that if I just let myself be attracted to who I’m attracted to, the results are wildly unpredictable (and it doesn’t actually happen that often.)
Looking back on my dating life from my current celibate perch, I realize, to my chagrin, how much I fucked myself over by assuming that I had to have a “type” and that i should use that as some kind of guide to who I dated. Turns out that if I just let myself be attracted to who I’m attracted to, the results are wildly unpredictable (and it doesn’t actually happen that often.)
Yeah types are overrated
I love this so much and I'm going to not write a whole screed here but just nod extremely enthusiastically and share this.