I blame society - which wants to perpetuate itself via Moar Babies - for these arbitrary distinctions and conventions: we all have the “hardware” for loving and sexing whoever we want, yet due to cultural morés it’s a BFD to simply express a preference for “I like boys”, or “I like girls”, or “I’m not sure”, or “I like both”, or even “eh, I’m busy doing other stuff” <3
I blame society - which wants to perpetuate itself via Moar Babies - for these arbitrary distinctions and conventions: we all have the “hardware” for loving and sexing whoever we want, yet due to cultural morés it’s a BFD to simply express a preference for “I like boys”, or “I like girls”, or “I’m not sure”, or “I like both”, or even “eh, I’m busy doing other stuff” <3