I want to echo the feeling seen post I saw below. It's nice to read a perspective of someone who thinks/feels/desires the same as you. My life is a lil calmer from reading this. Thank you <3
"I’m still attracted to a range of people of a range of genders. My fantasies are still involve a diverse mix of scenarios and genders that vary depending on my mood, depending on the day. And I still deal with the exhaustion of living in a world that is not built for bisexuals: a world where people routinely make snide comments about people like me as though I’m not within earshot, a world where I constantly feel the weight of having to come out or at least offer clarification lest people assume that I am someone who I am not."
Overall, being single sucks. Or more to the point, being single and feeling alone sucks. It sucks less that trying to be someone I'm not for someone unworthy of my efforts, but it still sucks. I miss sex. I'd like to feel seen. Bisexuality is part of that mix, but sometimes it simply feels like yet another barrier among many in terms of dating and relationships. <deep sigh>
I want to echo the feeling seen post I saw below. It's nice to read a perspective of someone who thinks/feels/desires the same as you. My life is a lil calmer from reading this. Thank you <3
Thank you for all your writings and the energy you pour into it 🖤 this makes me feel seen today
So glad to hear that!
This passage sums it up for me:
"I’m still attracted to a range of people of a range of genders. My fantasies are still involve a diverse mix of scenarios and genders that vary depending on my mood, depending on the day. And I still deal with the exhaustion of living in a world that is not built for bisexuals: a world where people routinely make snide comments about people like me as though I’m not within earshot, a world where I constantly feel the weight of having to come out or at least offer clarification lest people assume that I am someone who I am not."
Overall, being single sucks. Or more to the point, being single and feeling alone sucks. It sucks less that trying to be someone I'm not for someone unworthy of my efforts, but it still sucks. I miss sex. I'd like to feel seen. Bisexuality is part of that mix, but sometimes it simply feels like yet another barrier among many in terms of dating and relationships. <deep sigh>